you give your problems more power the more you think/talk about them - after recognition, anything besides action is stagnancy , and stagnancy breeds diseases
but saying not to think about something is kind of stupid so instead of focusing on the "not thinking" part, focus on the "action" part
cheers to everyone who figured that out before me
Batu, ur quotes/thoughts come at the right time for me man... LOVE this! U should really consider writting a book no joke
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Although now the question is, what if you dont know whats the best way to act towards/handel the situation?
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i think the right thing is usually more apparent than we think, sometimes its just hard to admit that its right, or it will cause us extended discomfort. but whatever you end up choosing , put your heart behind that decision because otherwise it's a waste
ReplyDeleteBut is it normal that ur never sure of that choice? that its the best thing for u? or is it like u said, we just dont like the extended discomfort so we creat doubt in ourselves?
ReplyDeleteand is it normal that Im talking to u through ur blog? lol
-himster
never? maybe theres mutiple perspectives fighting , i know when you take advice from someone that has a different understanding of life in general you're more than likely gonna have a different viewpoint than them, or at least different motives, and if that persons voice is strong in your head it can get a little confusing.
ReplyDeletei'm not sure sometimes though, i feel like i havent put my life in a place where i would be challenged with enough decision making so i'm just abstractly trying to understand something i havent personally experienced
and until our date this will do